Saturday, July 25, 2009

I just can't get into old age!







New AARP Bumper Stickers...


I am 66 years old. But, as long as I don't


look into a mirror, I don't actually feel "66"


I feel more like 50. At least I think I feel like I'm 50.
I don't really remember what 50 felt like.
But it gives me something to try to remember!

































Saturday, July 18, 2009

Medal of Honor recipient, Ed Freeman


Ed Freeman, Medal of Honor Winner died last Wednesday at the age of 80, in Boise, Idaho.

You're a 19 year old kid. You're critically wounded and dying in the jungle in the IaDrang Valley , 11-14-1965, LZ X-ray , Vietnam. Your infantry unit is outnumbered 8 - 1 and the enemy fire is so intense, from 100 or 200 yards away, that your own Infantry Commander has ordered the MediVac helicopters to stop coming. You're lying there, listening to the enemy machine guns you know you're not getting out. Your family is 1/2 way around the world, 12,000 miles away and you'll never see them again. As the world starts to fade in and out, you know this is the day. Then - over the machine gun noise - you faintly hear that sound of a helicopter..!! You look up to see an un-armed Huey!!

But.... it doesn'tseem real because no Medi-Vac markings are on it. Ed Freeman is coming for you..!! He's not Medi-Vac so it's not his job, but he's flying his Huey down into the machine gun fire anyway. Even after the Medi-Vacs were ordered not to come. He's coming anyway. And he drops it in and sits there in the machine gun fire, as they load 2 or 3 of you on board. Then he flies you up and out through the gunfire to the Doctors and Nurses. And, he kept coming back..!! 13 more times..!! He took about 30 of you and your buddies out who would never have gotten out.

Medal of Honor Recipient, Ed Freeman, died last Wednesday at the age of 80, in Boise , ID
May God Rest His Soul.

I bet you didn't hear about this hero's passing, but we have seen a whole bunch about some white-gloved persons' passing. Shame on the American Media..!!

Edward Freeman, a former Army helicopter pilot awarded the Medal of Honor for his heroics during the Vietnam War and portrayed in the Mel Gibson movie “We Were Soldiers,” has died. He was 80. Doug Freeman said his father died Wednesday in Boise from health complications due to Parkinson’s Disease after spending several weeks undergoing treatment. The Mississippi native braved intense enemy fire in the Ia Drang Valley as he carried out rescue missions on Nov. 14, 1965, during what was considered one of the fiercest battles of the Vietnam War.

After an Army battalion was surrounded by enemy forces, Freeman flew his unarmed helicopter through enemy fire to evacuate 30 seriously wounded soldiers and bring them to safety. He also delivered water, ammunition and supplies. Actor Mark McCracken portrayed Freeman in the 2002 film.

Freeman was 73 years old when President Bush awarded him the Congressional Medal of Honor at a White House ceremony in 2001.During the ceremony, Bush said Freeman initially won the Distinguished Flying Cross for his actions, but his commanding officer and other witnesses believed he deserved an even higher honor.In a statement, Doug Freemen described his father, who lived in Idaho for the last 30 years, as a “humorous person with a lot of integrity. “People could relate to him,” Doug Freeman said. “He made an impression on people. ”Lt. Col. Tim Marsano, with the Idaho National Guard, said funeral services have been scheduled for Saturday. Freeman will be buried at the Idaho Veterans Cemetery in Boise. Freeman was born in Neely, Miss., in Perry County, in 1927 and was a graduate of Washington High School. He was the sixth of nine children.After his retirement from the Army, Freeman served as a pilot for the U.S. Interior Department and retired a second time in 1991. He also flew as a civilian pilot with the National Interagency Fire Center, which is located in Boise.

Wednesday, July 15, 2009

Lookout Mark Phillips!


















Daniel is just finishing up a two week session of swimming lessons at the Brunswick Rec Center. Today was the first time I went along to watch.

What fun to see these little kids in the water. After they did excercises that took them to the "ropes" across the pool, they each were asked to jump in at the rope end of the shallower (2-1/2' while their instructor was right there in the water to "catch" them.

Very cute!

Next they were asked to go to the far end of the pool, jump off the diving board into the 13' end with the help of their instructor and a "foam noodle".


Daniel passed on that one. Took his towel instead.

There is always tomorrow when he may be a little braver!

Tuesday, July 14, 2009

She's Got a few good years left!

What fun! Sarah and Kevin bought a 1987 used
motor home. Horse Shows will never be the same! It is in very, very clean condition. The
interior looks like it is only a few years old. Carpet and upholstery are clean and comfy.

This is a similiar looking model, and the interior of theirs features a bedroom and full bath in the rear. Front driver and passenger seats turn fully around (not while driving of course) to be part of the "living room" which also features a full size sofa that pulls out flat and makes a bed, two cushy arm chairs and a table. Kitchen with a double bowl sink, microwave, coffee maker, oven, 4 burner stove, fridge and freezer, and a dinette that seats four, and it also makes into a bed.

What fun!
p.s. I'm told the driving lessons will take place in the Buckeye High School parking lot!

Sunday, July 12, 2009

Tired but happy!


Yesterday Tim, Nathan, nephews Ron (and his two sons Tony and Kevin) Bob and I went to Sullivan, Ohio and took up our work posts at Uncle Dave and Pat's house.


David is Tim's older brother and he has started his fourth round of chemo and radiation. He was not home yesterday as he had made a trip to Wisconsin accompanied by a good friend to attend a car show and meet up with his son Andy.
(how he managed that was beyond me)


The house in Sullivan that he and Pat had built was not completed before they moved in. In living there for the last couple of years, they have completed many projects, however David's illness has put a halt to everything.


The guys and I spent the day painting (my job) and putting up the moulding, trim around windows doors, baseboards, installing ceiling fixtures, trying to hang doors and closet doors. You name it and we attempted to fix it, nail it, paint it, plug it in or engineer it for the next work weekend.


Looks good if I must say so myself.


p.s. if you are interested in what color the trim is painted, stop by and take a look at my hands!

Thursday, July 9, 2009

Morton, the Mormon Cat....

In November of 1991, my friend, Marilyn Spittle came for a visit. Marilyn and I were sales associates together at HGM Miller Bishop Realty in Brunswick. She was a super intellectual woman who was a devout Mormon.

That day that she came to visit was pretty eventful as she brought with her a darling grey short haired kitten.

"I don't know how our cat happened to have kittens....she never gets out"! Yes, Marilyn, apparently she got out at least ONCE! Anyway, you don't bring a kitten into our home and go back home with it. Thus, "Morton, the Mormon Cat" came to take his rightful place in our home in Valley City.

He was actually more attached to our son Nathan than to anyone else in the family. He was not afraid of the collie puppy that we had acquired "Stanley" and he and Stanley grew up together. At times I really thought Morton considered himself a "dog"!

Nathan moved from our house and rented an apartment in Cuyahoga Falls with his friend Jerry Weiss, and Morton went along too! Morton was especially independent for a cat, but with the gregariousness of a dog. He was one to come and greet each guest and family member and ruled his domain from the back of the sofa (much to my dismay).

When Nathan moved back Morton came too, however when Nathan made the next move with his future wife Traci, everyone thought it best to let the "not so young feline" stay at home in Valley City.

For the last six months Morton has been suffering the pains of old age, and neither Nathan or I could make the decision to "let him go". We were outvoted but we were steadfast in wanting hime to have as many days as we could provide for him...and allow him the choice to tell us when the time would come. I changed his litter twice daily, and always fed him four times a day with Whiskas, and Fancy Feast. He would, of the last month , reign supreme over the utility room. His food, water and litter box, along with a clean rug and towel to sleep on. No more to climb to the top of the sofa in one single bound, but occasionally would pester to go outside and just lounge on the warm concrete of the patio. But he would loudly protest our absence, and the untimely manner that dinner would come if we had been gone.

We left for a farewell dinner with friends at 5:00 this evening, and when we returned, Morton was gone. He was simply lying in the position he normally assumed, on his side, quietly with not signs of stress. No more cries of "where have you been".

Nathan will come tomorrow evening and we shall bury him under the tree with his longtime friend, Stanley the collie.

God's speed to you dear friend!
Stanley will be looking for you!

Mary, Mary quite contrary, how does your garden grow?




...with silver bells and cockle shells, and a whole lot of green beans!
Daniel planted the beans, and then we planted tomatoes, chard, broccoli, peppers, squash, cukes,
potatoes and a pumpkin or two. Even my next door neighbor came over and planted two rows of beans in our garden.....cause the rabbits keep eating hers next door (as of yet, the rabbits avoid our garden. I think it is because we have Toby wandering around when we are outside.
Anyway, Linda's beans are coming up and are safe! Looking forward to a few weeks from now when we will gleefully pick the first of the crop....then not so anxiously pick more,.....and then ask our friends if they want to come and pick.....and then wish we had never planted the damn things!

Monday, July 6, 2009

I Love a Parade!


Last year's Fourth of July Parade in Valley City was really special. It was the first parade that Tim and I viewed with Daniel.
This year, the Liverpool Historical Society hosted the ceremony before the parade were the Historical Marker announcing Liverpool Twp (Valley City) as the first continuous settlement in Medina County.
Seba Bronson settled here from Columbia and his efforts were a "Hardscrabble". Hence the name of Hardscrabble at the intersection of Rt. 252 and Grafton Road. He worked the salt springs there and contributed to the town's success.
I was mistress of ceremonies for this prestigious event, and so Daniel was in the audience being accompanied by Suzie Neff, fund raising chair for the Bi-Centenniel which occurs in 2010. Then Daniel and I watched the parade. I love the music, the sirens, but most of all, I love the passing Flags.
"Stand up Daniel, here comes the American Flag...put your hand over heart and stand at attention when the flag passes". "Why Nana?"
Well, that is the next part of our education.

Friday, July 3, 2009

My Living Will.....


Last night, my friend and I were sitting in the family room and I said to her,

"I never want to live in a vegetative state, dependent on some machine and fluids from a bottle. If that ever happens, just pull the plug."


She got up, unplugged the Computer, and threw out my wine.


She's such a bitch.....

How Great Thou Art!



The year we lost our farm due to the economy, recession, and the purchase of the building and business in Valley City that unfortunately did not belong to the person that we purchased it from was filled with trauma and anger.

When the dust settled, and the bankruptcy court sold our biggest asset, the farm we owned for 18 years, we had to move to a new home. We chose to purchase a mobile home (with the help of Tim's brother Bill) in Brookdale "Trailer" park in Medina.

One of my prized possessions, the Wurlitzer spinet that my estranged mother taught hundreds of children to play piano on could not fit through the door of the trailer. Our friends Joanne and Bob Dushenke gave it a spot in their family room, alongside their beautiful organ. "Only until you get a house again", said Joanne. The years passed by a little too quickly, three to be exact when I heard news from two different people.

One bit of news from Joanne "Bob and I are moving to Millersburg, and we won't be able to take your piano" and "The congregation says moving the church's old piano (which was on very big casters) from the church hall to the sanctuary one Sunday a month for the children's choir to march down the aisle and sing in front of it accompanying them is going to ruin the carpeting in the sanctuary", said my friend Tama McAleese, the choir director.

Hmmm said I!

Of course, the Wurlitzer that my mother used to earn her living for all those years in Cleveland Hts., was moved carefully to the Emmanuel United Church of Christ in Valley City, where it proudly sits in front of the choir seats on the right of the alter.

My mother could play like the devil was chasing her, and she loved to sing along.

I was asked to give the "guest" sermon shortly after the piano was safely housed at the church.
I spoke of the woman who so dearly loved that piano, and how she had paid Bill Kapp, the piano and organ studio owner weekly from the rent that her boarders paid, so she could own that shiny beauty. She would come to the house a couple times a year and ask if she could play the piano. The Wurlitzer had been replaced in her life with a beautiful baby grand. Her students would gather around and perform recitals and Christmas pageants.

Anyway, she would always ask to play the Wurlitzer.

The music that I remember most was her playing and singing with gusto the spiritual "How Great Thou Art" (as sung by George Beverly Shea). She would end the hymn with a resounding "Amen" seemingly playing all of the keys on the piano at once.

The dedication of the piano allowed me to settle some long held anger towards my late mother
and I told of her singing that hymn. As I paused to speak the next paragraph of my speech that I noticed movement in the aisle of the church. As I had told the story of "How Great Thou Art", my friend and choir director Tama had slowly come down the stairs from the choir loft and made her way down the center aisle of the church. She pulled out the piano bench, sat down, and without making eye contact with me, proceeded to play that wonderful and emotional spiritual
"How Great Thou Art" and sang with all the gusto that I remembered my mother expressing.

There wasn't a dry eye in the house, including mine!

Thank you to my friend Jo Ann Wingfield for writing her blog this morning about her beloved spinet piano.

It brought a wave of memories to me!

Thursday, July 2, 2009

Signs of the Times

New Church Signs

Life is Hard... Afterlife is Harder!
(Love this next one)
Where will you be sitting in eternity? Smoking or Non- Smoking?
You are not too bad to come in....You are not too good to stay out!
Try our Sundays....they are better than Baskin-Robbins
The best vitamin for a Christian is.....B1
Come in and have your Faith lifted!
and....
Under the same management for 2000 years!