Friday, May 29, 2009

You can choose your neighbors!!!!



Yesterday I had the opportunity to travel to Ravenna, Ohio (Shalersville Twp. to be exact), to meet with a future client about selling their property. Beautiful home and barn with riding arena, pastures and woods. Lovely, lovely, lovely.
"Why would you want to leave this piece of countryside"?

You could have knocked me over with a feather when I heard the reply....."downsize".

Alright....from 68 acres, to........34 acres!

I just loved the response. They want to move next door to an existing property consisting of 34 acres and a barn and build a new smaller home. They will still have there lovely horses, and their Texas Long Horn cattle..........(no moving adjustment for the livestock there) and they can pick their new neighbors! Talk about the ability to "have it all".

Sounds wonderfully logical doesn't it? Half the land, half the house and half the work. However, in this day and age, they have given new meaning to the real estate term "downsize".

I am loving this job!

Thursday, May 28, 2009

Starman's Sweets.......Meredith Starman


Meredith Starman was on the front page of the Gazette this morning. A dynamic young woman, mother of 3, married to Scott, a masonry contractor and lives in Litchfield, Ohio.
"Mere" is devoted to her family and friends. She lost her mother-in-law to Breast Cancer, and has been volunteering by raising funds for research and awareness. She is the founder of "Starman's Sweets" a well known culinary home business featuring a variation of her mother-in-laws cheesecake. Seen at county fairs and events around Ohio featuring "Frozen chocolate covered cheesecake on a stick"! I have had the privelege of knowing Mere since she was a tiny little girl. Her mother Diane, holding the hands of her two little girls, Heather and Meredith stopped at our farm one day and bought a Morgan Horse gelding for her husband Chuck. "Odin" lived at the Valley City Farm owned by the McCullough's until the end of his days.

Our joke about the family was always "good West Virginia stock".
"Good people"
"Good Intentions".

Good Luck!

Judy A. Totts The Gazette
“Woo-Hoo, Woo-Hoo, Woo-Hoo!”
That’s the battle cry of Team Woo-Hooters, a group of six area women who will walk in the annual Susan G. Komen Breast Cancer 3-Day event July 31 to Aug. 2 in Cleveland.
They all walk the talk because they know someone who is a breast cancer survivor, like teammate Lorie Clark, 39, or someone who succumbed to the disease.
Seth Starman, 17, son of team member Meredith Starman, 39, of Litchfield Township, started the whole thing during Meredith’s first walk two years ago. To other walk participants in Cleveland, he’s known as the “Woo-Hoo” guy, his mom said.
“He had a big cardboard-and-duct tape sign with ‘Woo-Hoo’ printed on it,” Starman said, her face shaded by a pink visor pulled low on her forehead. “He moved along the route, holding up the sign, and shouting, ‘Woo-Hoo!’ He really inspired a lot of ladies who didn’t have people rooting for them.”
The last day it rained hard, and Seth’s sign fell apart, so this year his father made a giant woodcut sign to add impact to his exuberant support.
But enthusiasm and determination alone aren’t enough to get a team into the event. Each team member — Starman, Medina residents Clark, Kathy Simecek, 42, Dawn Gummo, 36, and Jennifer Hacker, 38, plus Carolyn Ruschak, 40, of Canton — must raise $2,300 to participate. This year, they’re hosting the Breast Cancer Hooter Run, a poker run for bikers, with all wheels welcome at noon Saturday (rain date June 20) at Geno’s, 7091 Lafayette Road, Lafayette Township. With entry set at $15 for a single rider and $20 for a double, the last bike leaves at 1 p.m. and must be back by 5 p.m. The run includes a 50/50 raffle.
Creative bikers will vie for a trophy awarded to the best decorated “Boobie Bike,” and the best poker hand wins $200. All proceeds will benefit Team Woo-Hooters.
Ruschak and Clark are hosting a second run the same time and day at Lew’s Bar, 3238 Lincoln Way East, Massillon.
“You can do car washes — I did one that raised $1,500 one time — but we did one another day and raised only $300,” Starman said. “We want this to be the biggest poker run ever in Ohio, possibly 1,000 bikes. We posted the information on some biker Web sites.”
“Poker seems to be what people like to do,” Hacker said. “We’ve sold hot dogs from the ‘wienie wagon,’ and we’ll do that again in July at Hawkins (in Medina). We look for different ways to raise money. We don’t like to keep asking the same people over and over for donations.”
Other fundraisers they’re hosting include poker tournaments and a night at the track from 4 p.m. to midnight June 13 at Lorain County Speedway, state Route 58, South Amherst. The speedway event includes photo ops with a race car driven by Sean Broski.
We might do a bunco day, too,” Gummo said.
On May 21, Hacker and Gummo put in eight miles of walking, pushing their youngest kids in jogging strollers. The team doesn’t often get to train together as a whole, thanks to hectic family and work schedules.
“We have routes mapped out,” Hacker said. “Today we combined a three-mile and a five-mile. Last year, we trained a lot, this year they’ve moved it up, so we’re a little crunched. The endurance isn’t as much a problem as wondering whether our feet will hold up.”
Walkers log about 22 miles the first day of the Susan G. Komen, 20 on day two and 16 to 18 miles on the final day.
Starman is a little worried about the heat, and she’s already planning ways to stay cool. Last year temperatures hit 95, but no matter what the weather conditions are, the teammates pull each other through.
“We all finish as a team,” Starman said.
“We wouldn’t leave anyone behind,” Hacker said. “We’ve adopted people from other teams who needed a boost. People along the way are incredible. We go through towns where people sit on lawn chairs to watch us go by. They hand out bottles of cold water. If we pass a fire station, we’ve had firemen cool us off with the firehoses.”
Hacker said when the first Komen walk was held, it lasted two days. “But you really need that third day to bond,” she said. “You really need each other to finish the walk. You go 12 miles plugged into your iPod, and then you’re asking yourself ‘What’s missing?’ What else? Oh, yeah, your friends. Friends are what you need.”
For information about other team fundraisers, visit www.teamwoohooters.com.

Tuesday, May 26, 2009

The journey starts from little boys....to men



Memorial Day morning found Daniel at our house for the day. Lots of work at the farm did not allow for someone to watch him as equipment was being operated, so we got the pleasure of our little boy spending the day.


In order to honor our Veterans, and those that served, we wanted to fly our new American Flag.


When Daniel and I have the opportunity to ride together on the trip from Brunswick to Valley City after his day at pre-school, we play a game of "finding the American Flags" that are on display. He is very attentive and pleased with himself when he is able to spot an American Flag without any prompting. "I see one Nana"!


So it was a real treat for both of us to have him carry the flag to it's post at the front of our house. This year Daniel is big enough to carry it all by himself.


...........and big enough to salute!


May 25 was a day for remembering.....not a day off!

Sunday, May 24, 2009

Samantha's First Horse Show


Samantha Samson has been taking riding lessons from my daughter Sarah Vas. "Sam" is 11 years old, in love with horses, does not own a horse, but comes to Sarah's barn and works in exchange for lessons, and the opportunity to ride.
When I first got this mare, Zana Bey, no one would have ever thought that she would be trustworthy enough to "Carry Sarah's Mother" around the ring, much less an 11 year old child.
Well, here is a testament to the "Arabian" horse and their intelligence and grace.
Sam and Zana competed in their first show yesterday. Sam got outfitted at a tack and clothing swap meet last month in anticipation of getting to show this year.
What a thrill to watch this "High powered and High anxiety" mare walk calmly into the ring, carrying an 11 year little girl.
"Dear God, please let the mare take care of the child, and let the child take care of the mare.
Well, four classes, and they took: 2nd out of seven, 2nd out of seven, 2nd out of seven, and
FIRST out of seven!
Yea Zana, and Yea Sam.
p.s. Yea God!

Wednesday, May 20, 2009

The Piano Man....a new definition

Hey: Billy Joel and Elton John will be in Cleveland this weekend. The Innerbelt Bridge is supposed to be open by 4:00 on Saturday, to accomodate the crowd of ticket holders.
The Sold Out audience could be thrilled to see this other Piano man as well!
It has taken 20 minutes for me to stop smiling! I may smile all day!
Please click on this wonderful link!

Billy Joel and Elton John....be afraid....be very afraid!




http://www.fark.com/cgi/vidplayer.pl?IDLink=4365716

Monday, May 18, 2009

Jennifer's Garden

One of the townships most respected gentleman, Jack Mack asked me to prepare an "appraisal" for the United Church of Christ here in town. Someone in the community was going to deed some land over to the church for their exclusive use.


Jack said he needed a "licensed Realtor" to do the job, so it would be "acceptable".


(And he called me?????) Anyway, I did the job, and called and spoke with Jack to make arrangements to meet and "deliver the goods" so to speak. Jack said he was still in his pajamas and was doing his morning excercise routine, but if I could stop by the house his wife Pat would be happy to meet and greet and take the large envelope of my opinion.


As I was getting ready to get back into my car, I noticed a beautifully landscaped plot of ground next to their deck. All kinds of beautiful perienniels were planted there, and the garden looked as if it were very lovingly attended to.


Then I saw the marker. It read "Jennifer's Garden".


Jennifer was Jack and Pat's younger daughter, who succumbed to breast cancer not long ago.

She was a school teacher, wife, mother, daughter and friend.


Jennie Mack Blossom.


Pat Mack said "that's all we have left of her!"


I choked up and had to hastily get into my car.


I wonder sometimes how I would be remembered.

Wednesday, May 13, 2009

The over 50 Fashion Police


Subject: Things that do not go together


Many of us over 50, WAY over 50, or on the way to 50 are quite confused about how we should present ourselves. We're unsure about the kind of image we are projecting and whether or not we are correct as we try to conform to current fashion. In spite of what you may have seen on the streets, the following combinations DO NOT go together and should be avoided:

1. A nose ring and bifocals

2. Spiked hair and bald spots

3. A pierced tongue and dentures

4. Miniskirts and support hose

5. Ankle bracelets and corn pads

6. Speedos and cellulite

7. A belly button ring and a gall bladder surgery scar

8. Unbuttoned disco shirts and a heart monitor

9. Midriff shirts and a midriff bulge

10. Pierced nipples that hang below the waist

11. Bikinis and liver spots.

12. Short shorts and varicose veins.

13. Inline skates and a walker. And the ultimate 'Bad Taste' in fashion for the older folks…


14. Thongs and Depends.

Please keep these basic guidelines foremost in your mind when you shop!

Tea anyone?








Saturday, May 9th was the Liverpool Township Bi-Cenneniel fund raising Tea. (yes, I'm on that committee too!) I went to the old school cafeteria on Friday afternoon, and set up tables, placed the china and spent a great deal of time folding napkins. Well......somebody had to do it!





It was really fun! Many of the committee and guests dressed in period costumes. I however chose "no costumes, period"! A little play on words, anyway......I wore a suit and a big formal hat!





I don't wear hats too often these days, unless I have the occassion to drive a horse and carriage............ which is not too often. The committee met at my house a couple of weeks ago and cut out, assembled and decorated "fans" to place on the tables as programs and menus.



Cute idea? Yes, I thought so when I made the suggestion. We had a great time playing with scissors and glue!









Finger sandwiches, fruit, scones (loved the scones) and pastries along with hot tea. The members of the committee brought an assortment of tea pots to set on the tables.


















After the Tea, we had a program presented by Tamia Land, a re-enactment specialist in costume from Ft. Meigs. It was my first experience at seeing that and it was very interesting.







Chemise vs. Chemisette....Hmmmm! I will look on those settlers in a new light, now that I know







what their under garments look like!

Monday, May 11, 2009

The first time I became a "MOM"


Yesterday was a lovely, sunny day which was celebrated by me and my family. My son Nathan and Daughter in Law, Traci hosted me and Traci's parents at a Mother's Day Brunch. The location was in Westlake, at Wagner's Country Inn.
This was a very, very special new memory added to another old memory of this fun place.
44 years ago, Mr. Wagner opened his banquest facility and added a Sunday Brunch Buffet to encourage traffic to his location. Located at the corner of Bradley Road and Center Ridge, there stood this lonely facility surrounded by lots of asphalt parking lot and there was a lawn and huge tree out front.
My friend Joan Martin (and Nathan's Godmother) and I were hired by Mr. Wagner to "advertise" his old fashioned Sunday Buffet. Joan and I dressed up like "old fashioned" ladies (not to be confused with Ladies of the Night) and drove Joan's big bay horse "Loki" hitched to an Amish buggy from Schady Road in Olmsted Twp,, all the way out to Wagner's.
One good thing about that was "Loki" was totally "road- broke". Meaning, he was like an Amish buggy horse that wasn't bothered by traffic, loud noises, dogs chasing etc. So Joan and I hitched up and put big placard signs on the buggy "Eat at Wagners" etc., trotted out the driveway, turned left and jogged on down the road. It took about 1-1/2 hours each way, and we would hitch Loki up to Mr. Wagner's tree and pose outside the buggy for the "tourists".
The perks.....we got to eat Sunday Buffet as our husbands drove the car up to Wagner's to join us for brunch!
What a great memory. Joan has been gone since the mid-80's, but I do remember it well.
It was as my friend Jo Ann says, "bittersweet" yesterday.
Joan was the most outrageous and adventuresome gal I ever met. She and I rode all over Northern Ohio together. Even hitching her Shetland Pony "Dirty Dan" to a pony cart and driving him all the way to Parmatown Mall and back! Those were pretty exciting days.
We both became Moms a year apart, and in her case, with such a bad heart and all, that was a miraclle.
Joan died suddenly while on a vacation trip to Florida. She sent her husband "Buzzy" into the gas station convenient store to buy her a popsicle....and when he returned she was slumped over the dash. Her heart was so full of love and joy.....it just couldn't stand it anymore. It gave out!
I looked up into the sky yesterday and wished her a happy Mother's Day!

Saturday, May 9, 2009

Before and After


Before I was a Mom, I never tripped over toys or forgot words to a lullaby.

I didn't worry whether or not my plants were poisonous.

I never thought about immunizations.

Before I was a Mom, I had never been puked on.

Pooped on. Chewed on. Peed on.

I had complete control of my mind and my thoughts.

I slept all night.


Before I was a Mom, I never held down a screaming child so doctors could do tests. Or give shots.

I never looked into teary eyes and cried.

I never got gloriously happy over a simple grin.

I never sat up late hours at night watching a baby sleep.


Before I was a Mom, I never held a sleeping baby just because I didn't want to put her down.

I never felt my heart break into a million pieces when I couldn't stop the hurt...

I never knew that something so small could affect my life so much.

I never knew that I could love someone so much.

I never knew I would love being a Mom..


Before I was a Mom, I didn't know the feeling of having my heart outside my body..

I didn't know how special it could feel to feed a hungry baby.

I didn't know that bond between a mother and her child.

I didn't know that something so small could make me feel so important and happy.


Before I was a Mom, I had never gotten up in the middle of the night every 10 minutes to make sure all was okay.

I had never known the warmth, the joy, the love, the heartache, the wonderment or the satisfaction of being a Mom.

I didn't know I was capable of feeling so much,

before I was a Mom .

Friday, May 8, 2009

If it looks like a duck!


I don't even read the paper or watch the news. First of all, it is depressing, and I prefer to live in lala land anyway, but if I am missing out on stuff, I just read my friend Jo Ann's blog to catch up on whats happening in the world. She spoke about the Oprah show that was airing on Thursday, yesterday May 7. I watched the Oprah show yesterday to see Elizabeth Edwards, wife of John Edwards talk about the book she has written and is on the shelves today.
How sad, and how brave, and how honorable. I'd have done things differently, I am sure. You can forgive, but you never can forget.
Okay, let's tell the little wife, about my indescretion (???? sounds like adultery to me, indescretion my fat patoot!) she has terminal cancer and probably won't be with us long!
If it looks like a duck, and walks like a duck and talks like a duck, it is probably a jackass in a duck suit!

Wednesday, May 6, 2009

The Will to Win


I couldn't sleep last night. One of those nights where my little brain was rockin' and rollin' (I should have stopped at the first American Idol Replay of Adam Lambert) so I was out on the
couch flopping like a fish out of water.
Chasing through the late night channels was the only option. Well, I could have done laundry, housecleaning, groom the dog, any number of things, but no..I chose to flip from a horizontal pose.
There was an autobiographical black and white movie on the life of golfer, Ben Hogan. Wow!
What a phenom! After his near fatal automobile crash, he spent 11 months recovering and pushing himself beyond the limits of man to play golf again. His legs had been crushed in the accident, and blood clots traveling from his legs to his heart threatened his life. Emergency surgery left him alive, but unable to walk.
But he did walk, and walk and walk. Walking around his bed around and around. He pushed himself, and never gave up because he wanted to play golf again, and wanted to win!
He played and won the Championship Tournament in constant pain. He would play a round of golf in the competition, then throw-up, then went back and played again.
The movie about his life "Follow the Sun" was one I remember from my youth. Glenn Ford played Hogan and Hogan himself was a constant consultant on the set. The tag of the movie had to be added as Ben won the Tournament after the movie was "in the can". So the ending of the movie shows the cover of Time Magazine with the caption "winner etc."
I don't know anything in my lifetime that has pushed me to those lengths.
I wonder if I will ever be challenged to go beyond my capabilities to succeed.


Tuesday, May 5, 2009

Ever the Lady!


Marguerite Rider Smith
May 5th, 2009 ·
Marguerite Rider Smith, 91, of Medina, passed away Sunday, May 3, 2009 at Medina Village Retirement Community. Marguerite was born August 28, 1917, in Cleveland, to Edmund and Louise Rider. She was raised in Hinckley, and moved to Medina in 1952.


Marguerite volunteered as a Nurse’s Aid for 22 years at the old Medina Community Hospital. She was a member of the Medina County Red Cross and served as “Gray Lady” for 10 years. She served on the rehabilitation board of Parma Hospital.


Marguerite was an active supporter of Medina County 4-H, since 1929 when she became a member. She received a F.F.A. pin for O.C. Duke in 1963 for her interest shown in the Future Farmers of America.


A life member of the Rocky Mountain Elk Foundation of North America; and active supporter for the Morris Animal Foundations of Colorado and the “Black-Hills Wild Horse Sanctuary” of South Dakota. Marguerite and her late husband, Richard owned the Broken Paddle Stables after selling their herd of 310 Jersey cattle in 1974.


She was a riding instructor (Equestrian) and a mentor for the “Career Shadowing and Community Service” project of Medina High School. Marguerite donated her horse arena, horses and two years of teaching for classes of Equestrian until the horse barn was built for the Medina County Career Center. She volunteered riding classes for Handicapped children.


Marguerite was sworn into the Mounted Unit of the Medina County Sheriff Dept. as Deputy in 1984 and served under Sheriff John Ribar and Sheriff Neil Hassinger. She was recently promoted to sergeant. Marguerite took great pride in patrolling the Medina County Fairs for 25 years on her faithful police horse, “Blue”. She served the “Mounted Police” competitions held in Kentucky Horse Park representing our Medina County of Ohio.


At Marguerite’s request, cremation has taken place and there will be no visitation or funeral service. However, there will be a celebration of life service at Zion Lutheran Church, 2233 Abbeyville Rd., Valley City, on June 14, 2009 at a time to be announced.
p.s. I admired this woman so much. She was an inspiration and the model used in the dictionery
for the words "hard work". I shall miss you!

Monday, May 4, 2009

Another day older......and that's a good thing!


I got up this morning with a few new wrinkles and another pain. This one is in my knee. I remember taking a mis-step yesterday and feeling a big "twinge" but not paying any attention.
Tonight my knee is swollen and tender. If I could take a half hour out of my day to sit on my "butt" and put my leg up I think the pain will go away!
Not now, just came back from the barn. Also make 14 dozen pierogies today, delivered lunch (guess what I served????) to my office "Lunch and Learn" Got lots of applause for the meal, then back at it, meeting a buyer and spending time cooking dinner (carbonara..yum!) and I still have Daniel visiting.
Sooooooo.....it's off to see the Wizard and hopefully I can walk down that ole' yellow brick road!
The alternative is not great, so I'll just put up with the discomfort and think about it tomorrow!